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Guest Blog: Jennifer Gonzales--5 Listening Skills That Will Improve All of Your Relationships

March 16, 2025
By Mr. Mike Pilliod

Hello all!

Today's post is a Guest Blog post from Jennifer Gonzalez! We in educational circles know her from her website and podcast, Cult of Pedagogy. She is an invaluable resource for new teachers and seasoned veterans alike!

This particular article/podcast isn't just for teachers and school-based administrators…This is for anyone and everyone! Click the link below and head over to the Cult of Pedagogy for 5 Listening Skills. Enjoy! Click HERE for 5 Listening Skills That Will Improve All of Your Relationships. As always, leave a comment for me at the bottom of this posting!

Soli deo gloria!

The Virtue of Doing Hard Things: A Biblical Perspective

March 15, 2025
By Mr. Mike Pilliod

In a world that often prioritizes comfort, ease, and instant gratification, it can be difficult to understand why struggle—whether intellectual, emotional, or physical—should be considered a virtue. Yet, in the Christian worldview, struggle is seen as a crucial part of God's process of sanctification in our lives. Struggle is also paramount with regards to academic achievement; thinking and learning! It is not merely something to be endured or avoided, but an opportunity for growth, refinement, and maturity. As followers of Christ, we are called to embrace the challenges we face, knowing that through these struggles, God shapes us more into His image.

I, for one, idolize comfort. When my children were younger I didn’t want to have to go home after teaching school all day and then re-teach my children. I just wanted to relax. I figured I worked hard all day long and so deserved some respite from the tough days before me. I was wrong!

Struggle, in its many forms, is woven throughout Scripture. James 1:2-4 (NIV) reminds us: “Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.” This passage reframes struggle—not as something to be feared but as a tool for growth. The process of struggling is virtuous because it produces qualities that reflect God’s character and strengthen our faith. Through struggle, we learn patience, humility, wisdom, and perseverance.

And as a baseball guy all my life, I know for sure that the struggle is real, and the grind is a good thing! Think about it. Major League Baseball seasons are 162 games long and players get 1 day off per week; and that’s usually a travel day. It’s a grind. It’s a struggle. And one can fail 70% of the time and be considered one of the greats! Baseball, to me, is one of the more perfect athletic examples resembling life in general. There are ups and down. Success must be redefined in terms that make sense. And players have to maintain a daily intensity level slightly above the average person to make it work. The struggle, the grind, is real. To quote Jimmy Dugan from the movie, A League of Their Own, “It’s supposed to be hard. If it wasn’t hard, everyone would do it. The hard is what makes it great.”

A Biblical Case for Struggle in Education
This principle of struggle as a means of growth applies just as much in education as it does in life and faith. Unfortunately, many students today have been conditioned to fear failure rather than see it as an essential part of learning. The modern classroom often discourages risk-taking. Students learn to avoid intellectual struggle because they equate failure with punishment—lower grades, embarrassment, or lost opportunities. But this mindset stifles curiosity, perseverance, and intellectual growth.

As Christian educators, we at WCA make strides to increasingly adopt a robust philosophy of failure in our classrooms, one that aligns with Biblical truth and the realities of intellectual development. We desire to cultivate lifelong Truth Seekers, and as such, our students must feel safe to fail, reassess, and try again. Learning is a process, and failure is not its enemy; rather, it is a key ingredient in the process of mastering any subject.

In Proverbs 24:16, we read: “For though the righteous fall seven times, they rise again.” This truth must permeate our educational philosophy; not just here in the classrooms at WCA, but in our homes with our children, spouses, families, friends, and loved ones. We desire to create learning environments where students can fall—where they can attempt difficult tasks, wrestle with complex ideas, and even fail—without those failures permanently defining them. Just as God allows us to stumble so that we may grow in faith, we educators and parents should allow students to struggle, fostering resilience rather than fear.

A Philosophy of Failure: Fostering Growth
If failure is such a powerful tool for growth, how can we create a classroom structure that encourages it in a productive way? One approach is the idea that failure should be a step in the learning process rather than a final judgment. Just like in the Bible, the Greek word for test and trial and temptation are all the same; how it is defined depends upon context. Yes, God tests us! But it is like the test the scientist performs on an object to verify what it is; what is its true nature. It is not a test of judgment. Or, consider a recital. After hours and weeks and months of practicing we put on display the efforts of musicians and singers, etc. But make no mistake; even in a recital one can face the consequences of their actions if they didn’t train well or practice appropriately, etc.

At WCA, we desire for all of our teachers to allow some initial failure with students. We call this formative assessment and it occurs in a multitude of ways. We also desire for teachers to ensure that students are encouraged to engage deeply with the material, make mistakes, and learn from them without fear of being identified with the failure itself. When students struggle with a particular concept, they are encouraged to re-engage with the material, reassess, and improve—just as an artist refines a painting or a musician practices a difficult piece before a performance.

This approach aligns with the biblical process of sanctification. Sanctification is not instant; it is a lifelong journey of refinement. Similarly, learning is not about immediate perfection but continuous growth. Just as God is patient with us in our spiritual walk, allowing us to stumble and learn, teachers are patient with students, guiding them through their intellectual struggles.

With all that said, at some point the night of the recital arrives. The day of the game arrives. And the day of an assessment arrives as well. We’re not just working to educate students as best, and as Biblically, as we can, but we are also working to prepare students for the rigors of the universities they might attend in the future, as well as their careers and jobs. Students have to learn to learn within deadlines, for sure.

Failure as an Essential Component of Intellectual Virtues
The struggle of learning is a proving ground for intellectual virtues—habits of mind that shape students into thoughtful, disciplined, and curious individuals. At Warner Christian Academy, we emphasize the cultivation of these virtues, which include:

  • Intellectual Humility – Recognizing that we do not know everything and being open to correction. This is impossible to develop if students are afraid to admit they are wrong.
  • Intellectual Courage – Taking risks in thinking, speaking, and writing, even if one might be incorrect.
  • Intellectual Tenacity – Persisting in learning despite difficulty.
  • Intellectual Autonomy – Learning to think independently rather than simply memorizing information.

These virtues are best developed in a learning environment where students are encouraged to struggle without fear. When students know they are safe to take intellectual risks, they become more willing to engage with difficult material and develop perseverance.

In Romans 5:3-4, Paul writes: “Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope.” If we truly want students to develop character and hope, we must allow them to experience the struggle of learning without discouraging them from pressing forward.

Jesus: The Ultimate Example of Struggle Leading to Glory
No discussion of the virtue of struggle would be complete without looking at Christ Himself. Jesus endured the ultimate struggle—taking on the sin of the world and suffering on the cross. Hebrews 12:2 tells us: “Fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith. For the joy set before him, he endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.”

Jesus’ struggle led to the redemption of humanity. His example teaches us that hardship, when endured for the right reasons, produces fruit that far outweighs the pain. In the same way, students who struggle academically, intellectually, or even spiritually should be reminded that their struggles are not in vain. They are being shaped, refined, and prepared for greater things.

And that is the ultimate end of our Mission—to shape students into the image of Christ by helping them discover Truth; we’re shaping Truth Seekers!

The Culture of a School that Embraces Struggle and Redemption
At Warner Christian Academy, we believe in the virtue of struggle—not as something to be avoided, but as something that strengthens faith, character, and intellect. We encourage students to embrace difficult tasks, to wrestle with challenging material, and to develop perseverance in their learning. We also desire for students to learn from failure without being defined by it.

In our classrooms, we desire to help parents and families guide students toward intellectual and spiritual maturity. Our discipline system follows this same principle. Rather than viewing misbehavior as something to be simply punished, we see it as an opportunity for discipleship—a chance to guide students back to truth, just as God graciously corrects us.

Sure, there are of course rules and policies, etc. And though students must have consequences for actions, they are forgiven, and their identities are not wrapped up in the behavioral infractions and sanctions.

Conclusion: Struggle as a Path to Transformation
In the end, struggle—whether in academics, faith, or life—is not something to be feared but embraced. It is the soil in which perseverance, humility, wisdom, and character grow. Just as God uses struggle to refine our faith, we must allow students to struggle in their learning so that they may grow into wise, thoughtful, and resilient individuals.

If we are to prepare students to be faithful followers of Christ, we must teach them to view struggle as a pathway to growth, not as a roadblock to success. Whether in their academic journey, their spiritual walk, or their future careers, they will face challenges. And when they do, we want them to have the confidence to rise again—knowing that struggle is not the end of the story, but the beginning of transformation.

Soli deo gloria!

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Why Do I Need to Learn This? What Does This Have to Do With My Life Anyway?

February 24, 2025
By Mr. Mike Pilliod

As an educator for the past 28 years, I have heard on countless occasions students ask, “Why do I need to learn this?” or “When will I use this in real life?” I totally and completely understand their knee-jerk desire to ask these questions because, well, I asked them myself as a teenager—and I imagine many of you have too.

Unfortunately, throughout my career in education, there has been a push to constantly “make education applicable.” Oh, we think students don’t listen, don’t we? But really, they are listening! And they are learning! When national educational leaders pontificate about how all learning should be applicable to students’ lives, the student will hear that! Indeed, they will! It gives us, as students, a built-in excuse to abjectly refuse to learn something if we do not deem it applicable. And therein lies the rub, doesn’t it? Who determines what is to be and not to be applicable to the millions of students’ lives? The students? They certainly seem to think so. And what about learning for the sake of learning? For the sake of coming closer and closer to the Truth? Learning should be about Truth Seeking, right?

Schools need to get back to helping students develop into becoming good thinkers/learners. At WCA, we will do so by developing the intellectual virtues—habits of thinking and learning—that are essential for success, personal growth, and living out one’s faith. These nine intellectual virtues—(1) Curiosity, (2) Intellectual Humility, (3) Intellectual Autonomy, (4) Attentiveness, (5) Intellectual Carefulness, (6) Intellectual Thoroughness, (7) Open-Mindedness, (8) Intellectual Courage, and (9) Intellectual Tenacity—are more than academic skills; they are character traits that reflect the character of God and enable individuals to love the Lord their God with all their minds! Not only this, but these intellectual virtues will help students to learn the patterns of thinking and problem-solving that apply to every area of life—not just within the classroom.

Just as a good neighbor shows kindness, generosity, and patience, and a good citizen demonstrates honesty, responsibility, and respect, a good thinker cultivates the intellectual virtues. These virtues shape a person’s character, influencing how they approach challenges, seek Truth, and interact with others. Learning in school provides opportunities to practice these traits, building habits that last a lifetime. Developing intellectual virtues is not only about achieving success, but also about becoming a person of integrity who uses their mind to serve others and to glorify God. And isn’t that our mission here at WCA…to shape students into the image of Christ by helping them discover Truth?! Why, yes it is!

The intellectual virtues also mirror the character of God. As the Creator of the universe, God is the ultimate source of wisdom, knowledge, and understanding. When students cultivate intellectual virtues, they reflect aspects of God’s nature in their own lives. For example:


1.  Curiosity reflects God’s infinite wisdom and desire for His children to seek truth and explore His creation. Proverbs 25:2 says, “It is the glory of God to conceal a matter; to search out a matter is the glory of kings.” This also takes the focus off of self and places it squarely upon others; being curious about what others have to say.

2.  Intellectual Humility reflects Christ’s humility, as seen in Philippians 2:3-4, where believers are called to consider others above themselves, and allows us to admit when we do not know something, and as such, we become Truth Seekers.

3.  Intellectual Autonomy mirrors God’s gift of free will, encouraging individuals to think independently while aligning their choices with His truth. It also teaches us to work independently and not depend upon the work of others for or the words of others for affirmation or validation.

4.  Attentiveness mirrors God’s attentiveness to His creation, as seen in Matthew 10:29-31, where even the sparrows are under His care. Being careful, meticulous, is a virtue, for sure such that we minimize mistakes and take care to do all that we do for the glory of God.

5.  Intellectual Carefulness reflects God’s precision in creating the world with perfect order and design. Being careful in our thoughts allows us to not be swayed by any wind of doctrine or be fooled by many words and vain philosophies.

6.  Intellectual Thoroughness reflects God’s completeness, as He leaves nothing unfinished or incomplete. As such, we should focus on a task to completion and not be distracted by our phones and the cares of this world.

7.  Open-Mindedness reflects God’s fairness and justice, as He listens to the prayers of all people and shows compassion to those who seek Him. The ability to see/understand someone else’s perspective is vital to learning and might just prove valuable as Truth Seekers.

8.    Intellectual Courage mirrors the courage Jesus showed when speaking the truth, even when it was unpopular. It also allows us to challenge our own thoughts on what we might believe that we know. We should have the courage to be Truth Seekers, wherever the Truth leads.

9.    Intellectual Tenacity reflects God’s faithfulness and perseverance, as He never gives up on His people. Doing hard things is virtuous and relies on all the other 8 virtues above. Seeing the challenge and not backing down must be learned. Working on a problem or project to fulfillment is something to be practiced, learned, and enhanced.

By developing these virtues, character traits, students grow in their ability to think, learn, and act in ways that honor God. And again, learning is not just about collecting facts—it’s about developing patterns of thinking that prepare individuals to face life’s challenges.
The Bible reminds us that challenges are inevitable. In John 16:33, Jesus says, “In this world, you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” Learning to think critically, solve problems, and approach difficulties with intellectual virtues is essential—not just for school, but for every area of life. Whether managing relationships, making decisions, or facing unexpected setbacks, the ability to think clearly, analyze situations, and persist through difficulties is crucial. The patterns of thinking developed at WCA—like breaking down complex problems, considering different perspectives, and applying knowledge to new situations—equip our students to navigate both everyday challenges and larger life obstacles. And take note of the second part of that verse…Jesus has overcome the world! And so again, by developing the intellectual virtues, we not only reflect the very nature of God, but we participate in Jesus’ overcoming of the world and it’s troubles by learning the patterns of problem-solving. We live in a Genesis 3 universe right now. It’s fallen and depraved…and there simply will be problems that need solving! Will our students be prepared to solve problems and do hard things? I pray they will. And by God’s grace we will do our best here at WCA to ensure that happens!

In Matthew 22:37, Jesus commands us to, “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.” How do we love the Lord with all our mind? Cultivating intellectual virtues is a way to fulfill this commandment. Using one’s mind to seek Truth, understand God’s creation, and think deeply about life’s questions is an act of worship. When students approach their studies with curiosity, diligence, and integrity, they honor God by using the gifts He has given them. Even subjects that seem, to many students, unrelated to faith—like math, science, or literature—become opportunities to discover the order, beauty, and creativity of God’s design. Remember, as Abraham Kuyper said, “There is not a square inch in the whole domain of our human existence over which Christ, who is Sovereign over all, does not cry, Mine!” It is ALL sacred! God created our brains and our minds and for us to NOT cultivate our minds/brains would be a slap in the face of our Creator. That is why at WCA we teach “apologetically.” The word “apologetics” comes from the word “defense” in 1 Peter 3:15 where Peter says, “But in your hearts honor Christ the Lord as holy, always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect.” And so we teach math and science and literature (and every other subject) as subject to the authority of Christ. We teach subjects and topics within subjects such that students understand that these topics ONLY make sense from a Biblical worldview and don’t make sense from any other worldview.

Moreover, intellectual virtues enable individuals to serve others and share God’s love. For example, intellectual courage empowers people to stand up for their beliefs, while intellectual humility allows them to listen and learn from others. Attentiveness and carefulness help individuals notice the needs of those around them, and tenacity gives them the perseverance to make a difference. In this way, developing intellectual virtues not only benefits individuals but also equips them to fulfill their calling to love and serve others.

While students may not use every fact or formula they learn in school, the intellectual virtues and patterns of thinking they develop are essential for success, personal growth, and spiritual maturity. Like the character traits of a good neighbor or citizen, intellectual virtues shape who a person becomes, influencing their actions, decisions, and relationships. By cultivating curiosity, open-mindedness, humility, courage, tenacity, attentiveness, carefulness, autonomy, and thoroughness, students reflect God’s character and learn to love Him with all their minds. Ultimately, the purpose of education is not just to gain knowledge but to grow into the person God created each individual to be—someone who uses their mind to seek truth, solve problems, serve others, and bring glory to God.

Soli deo gloria!
 

In a world of school choice, why should you choose private, Christian schooling for your children?

February 14, 2025
By Mr. Mike Pilliod

As we all know, COVID hit us and affected us in many ways. Come to find out, one of the ways it affected us was in the schooling of our children. Sure, the children had to forgo attending classes physically and adapt to variations of virtual schooling, but that’s not even what I’m talking about here.

I’m not even talking about the double-digit percentile hit in mathematics achievement that befell our country during this time from which we as educators are still reeling. I’m talking about how the CONTENT our schools were teaching our children ended up smack dab in front of us in our living rooms as we went through the academic day with our children. Many of us were faced with content that runs very much counter to our own belief systems.
Weren’t we raised to believe that public schools had no set belief system in place? That they were belief-neutral systems? That faith integration ONLY occurred in religious schools?

Reality check hit us all.

Public schools operate under a strict belief system called secular-humanism. It permeates everything in a public school; from the curriculum to the teacher training to the discipline plans to the student government programs to the cafeteria. What is secular humanism?
I’ll give you a quote from the Answers in Genesis website. “Humanists consider man to be the measure of all things. That is, the human mind is considered to be the ultimate standard by which all claims are judged. Humanism is a religious system, the deity of the worldview being man himself. Humanists hold their views with zeal and conviction.” (https://answersingenesis.org/world-religions/humanism/humanism-as-religion-sir-julian-huxley/)

This religious belief system operates that mankind is perfectible ON THEIR OWN without the aid of the supernatural. They believe that truth can be found by looking within oneself.

As a Christian, I know that humans are corrupt and in need of saving grace from the God of the universe, who alone is perfect and actually is the ultimate standard by which we should all compare ourselves. And when we do compare ourselves, we know we fall woefully short, and it exposes our need for a savior.
Make no mistake, public schools and non-sectarian private schools are religious and are working hard to teach their system to students.
As a scuba lover, beach-goer, and a man who once spent almost a decade living in a foreign country, I can tell you that people tend to either run away from something, or run toward something. Or maybe it just seems that way because I spent a lot of time in and on the oceans and beaches. Vacationers are running away from the stresses of work/home life elsewhere. Others are running away from governments. Many running away from cold weather! Once in a while, there are those running TOWARD the simpler life of a 3rd world country.

Unfortunately, when it comes to schooling our children, people choosing private schools and charter schools and homeschooling are typically running away from the public school system. They have experienced a lack of care about student behaviors, they have experienced their child being passed to the next grade level without having learned requisite material or patterns of thinking and learning, they have experienced historical revisionism in classes, they have experienced an onslaught of belief systems taught as true that run counter to reality and counter to how they were raised, they were taught that the Law of Biogenesis was violated in the past (sorry…I’m a science nerd, so I have to bring up “sciencey” things from time to time).
I now argue that we must be running toward something. We must run toward and choose private, Christian schooling because it is the right thing to do. It is virtuous to do so.

An overwhelming number of private schools are religious in nature. In the United States, these schools tend to be Christian schools. Private schools routinely outperform public schools academically. Therefore, private Christian schools are outperforming public schools. So choose academic excellence and rigor by choosing private Christian schooling.

Public schools do lip-service to character-building and attempt, half-heartedly, to address it by implementing programs. But private Christian schools, by their very nature, immerse students in high character-building requirements. By adhering to Biblical standards of holiness and interpersonal relationships in every single subject, students will learn right from wrong and how to treat others. As Abraham Kuyper has said, “There is not a square inch in the whole domain of our human existence over which Christ, who is Sovereign over all, does not cry, Mine!” From literature to the ideal gas law, from polynomials to philosophy, from interpersonal relationships to teamwork, there is not a subject upon which the Bible does not speak.

And what about integrating character and academics? Here at Warner Christian Academy, we will teach our subjects not only from a Biblical worldview, with Christ at the center, but we will put a priority of focus upon teaching for the Intellectual Virtues as well; bridging the gap between educating for character and educating for academics.

At Warner Christian Academy, we aim to cultivate a rich foundation of Intellectual Virtues in every graduate, equipping them for lifelong learning and Christ-like service. To do this, we take a 3-stage approach to learning the patterns/characteristics/traits of being a good learner/thinker.
Firstly, we encourage students to get started by nurturing a deep sense of curiosity, inspiring them to ask questions and explore with a thirst for understanding. We promote intellectual humility, teaching students to admit their intellectual limitations and embrace the growth that comes with acknowledging what they don’t know. With intellectual autonomy, we empower students to think for themselves, fostering independent, self-directed reasoning.

In executing well, we emphasize attentiveness—the ability to stay present, engaged, and mindful in their learning journey, free from distractions. We instill intellectual carefulness, encouraging students to approach their thinking with care, accuracy, and an awareness of potential pitfalls. Additionally, intellectual thoroughness drives our students to go beyond superficial answers, pushing them to dive deep in their pursuit of knowledge and understanding.
When it comes to handling challenges, we value open-mindedness, encouraging students to think outside the box and give fair consideration to different perspectives. Intellectual courage is essential in persisting through fear or uncertainty, teaching students to take risks in their thinking and communication. Lastly, intellectual tenacity enables students to embrace struggle, remain resilient in the face of difficulty, and persist with their eyes set on long-term growth and achievement.

By fostering these virtues, Warner Christian Academy ensures that each graduate leaves equipped with the skills and mindset necessary to navigate the world with integrity, wisdom, and faith.

Discipline is done in a Biblical manner and not cookie-cutter style. In private Christian schools, poor behaviors are known to be a natural outcome of the Fall of man from Genesis 3. And the basic plan of the Bible is that we know about Creation (what things ought to be), the Fall (the way things are), and Redemption (how it can be and will be in the future). Behavior modification isn’t merely a scientific endeavor where, if you say the right things or condition the child appropriately then (s)he will change his/her ways. No. We work with the child and the families to get to the root issues of the behaviors themselves and come up with plans with the families for nurturing the child back to the path. That is what discipline means. To disciple. To come alongside someone and help them out. Many private Christian schools operate under the idea that, “The heart of every behavioral problem, is the heart.” Here at WCA, we agree.
The above items, character-building, intellectual virtues, and proper discipline produce school cultures that show dramatic reductions in bullying and other negative interpersonal behaviors.

Private Christian schools tend to have much smaller student-to-teacher ratios than public schools. No, there aren’t many schools around that operate in a 1:1 ratio, but with a reduction in student:teacher ratios we can ensure that your student will not “fall through the cracks.” And if they are headed toward a crack, our schools are small enough in overall population that we’ll see your child headed for the crack and call him/her by name to give guidance away from it. Here at WCA, we have roughly a 12.7 : 1 student-to-teacher ratio.

Additionally, private Christian schools focus on service. We lead in a servant-hearted manner, and we ask for service among our students and teachers. Students will be taught to serve and given multiple opportunities to serve. Many schools will have classes raise money for mission trips to foreign countries while building relationships with people overseas throughout the years. Other schools will do more local service projects. Many schools end up having student-led service projects and trips as well. At Warner Christian Academy, we do all these things. We require service hours as part of our Bible class and matriculation to the next grade and for graduation. Also, we are working with various families across Latin America, financially sponsoring children on a monthly basis, communicating with them, and working toward the potentiality of visiting these families in their home country during our students’ senior year of high school.

The religious beliefs of your home will be reinforced at school as well; and not trampled upon. Private Christian schools that strive to develop Truth-Seekers will produce in your children a love for the Bible and an understanding that all things, including science and math and literature, exist because the God of the Bible exists.

So, set your beliefs aside no longer. Set aside your high expectations for children’s behavior no longer. Set aside your high expectations for academics no longer. Choose private, Christian schooling today. Choose Warner Christian Academy!

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